First anniversary

Isn't that an odd way to look at it?  Sometimes, most definitely, you have to laugh.

I didn't find out for a week but still, this was the day in 2014 when my divorce became final.  It was the right move, the only possible move, and the divorce process itself was not bad at all.  The subsequent process of annulling the marriage was downright unpleasant but Rudyard Kipling said that, for a man,    

 "Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,"

Again, as in the introduction to this conspiracy, this is a place where you will safeguard my honor and I will safeguard yours.

As David Lamotte sang, "I don't want back my yesterday.  I know we're better off this way."

So, here is a toast to the good times and a prayer that someday, we might both find someone with whom we can keep those promises that we made in December 2005.